Why put yourself in positions to make your life worse? Females and males are both guilty of this. It’s hard for me to understand when a person can get their head bumped several times by their mate, but continues to fight for the relationship. If you know that he or she isn’t the right one, why fight for the shit? Let it go! First time shame on you, second time shame on them. It’s only gonna cause you more heartache and pain, something that’s been all to familiar within the relationship. It’s gonna get worse if you’re the only one fighting to keep the relationship in tact. Your mate will change NOTHING as long as they know you’re gonna continue to put up with the bullshit. Get the hell on with your life, value yourself more and always love yourself FIRST!