today I’m gonna talk about knowing when to let go. There are a lot of people who have been involved in serious relationships and find it hard to move forward. First thing first, as I’ve said many times before, ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF FIRST! Although you’ve invested time, energy, emotions, and money, when the relationship ends, just think of it as lessons learned. You can always take what you’ve gained or learned from one relationship to the next. You will know better and do better. Never take negative energy into a new relationship. Leave that shit in the past. Don’t dwell on how your last girlfriend/boyfriend treated you.
When you know when to let go, you’re freeing yourself from unwarranted heartache and headache. Don’t look back at “the what if’s” and “the could have been’s”. It’s now non-existent. I know for some it can be easier said than done. If you’re the one who broke the relationship off, you’ll find it easier done than said. But if the shoe is on the other foot, it will be more easier said than done. Your feelings will be hurt and you’ll want nothing more than to stay in the relationship or start over with that person.
You must know when to allow your emotions to vacate the relationship. Never allow it to have a hold on you when there isn’t anything for you to hold on too. Move forward and don’t think about looking back. Only look back to see how far you’ve come. LOVE YOUSELF FIRST!